Ever since I posted some notes on Anne Lamott (August 29), I’ve been mulling over her comments on the importance of truth in writing, and how that relates to blogging. Overtly, her words do not have to do with the online world. Bird by Bird, Lamott’s book on writing, was published in 1994. By then, a few people had learned not trust everyone in a chatroom, but we were still years away from the need to decide what sorts of truth to reveal to what sorts of people in our Facebook profiles.
Conclusion 1: If we didn’t know it before, we have learned online that there are many kinds of truths. Some are for Friends and some are for Everyone, and it’s good to know the difference.
I don’t think I’m being picky; it’s just that when someone talks about “truth” I am never quite sure what they mean. “Truth or reality, or whatever you want to call it is the bedrock of life,” says Lamott. Hmmm. Well we all agree that the sun sets in the west, but luckily for us bloggers, there is little consensus on truth beyond such “obvious” things. If there were – if we learned any final realities in school, there would be little for us to write about.
Conclusion 2: According to biologists, the cells in our bodies renew themselves in seven year cycles, and experientially, my beliefs/truths transform in a similar time frame. I no longer believe several key stories I was convinced of just five years ago. Even people’s core beliefs, often matters of faith, are subject to alteration: the Jesus someone believed in at 3 is not the Jesus they know at 30 or 60.
To be fair, I think the kind of truth Lamott points to in her book on writing is “gut level honesty,” but still, what is that? In her essays she uses a lot of self-revelation. She walks that tightrope successfully because her personal stories fit and illustrate the points she is trying to make, but it’s one of those “don’t try this at home” kind of things. Luckily, most bloggers I follow use self-revelation appropriately too. Perhaps it’s because we know a post goes to Everyone, and that understanding makes us circumspect.
Conclusion 3: I was lucky enough to find a reliable standard for self-revelation in writing when I came upon Black Elk Speaks, by John Niehardt when I was 18. Though I may not always live up to it, I have always aimed at the standard set by the great Lakota medicine man. If anyone had an interesting story to tell, it was Black Elk, who knew Crazy Horse and Sitting Bull, and witnessed the Little Bighorn and Wounded Knee. Yet he begins his historic account with these words:
“My friend, I am going to tell you the story of my life, as you wish; and if it were only the story of my life I think I would not tell it; for what is one man that he should make much of his winters, even when they bend him like a heavy snow? So many other men have lived and and shall live that story, to be grass upon the hills. It is the story of all life that is holy and good to tell.”
For me, “truth in writing” is one of those abstractions, like “voice,” that it’s better not to worry about. We may “know it when we see it,” but operationally, it’s better to simply write, then post, then write again. If I “set out to find my voice,” I am guaranteed to be silly at best.
At least that is my truth for today. Next week or next month it may be something different, but that’s ok. Pretty natural, I believe. When you really think about it, most “truths” do not have a very long half-life.